Okay, so this blog isn't really about relationships. It's about changing. Making room for the new by eliminating the old. Now some things that have been around in your life forever should stay...like friends, family, morals, etc. Everything else doesn't necessarily have to GO, but it should evolve.
Today I changed my ring tone...VERY symbolic. I've had 'Get Into the Groove' by Madonna for years. I felt that song represented who I WAS...but not anymore. I still love the song, but I don't feel connected to the song like I used to. And my new ring tone (Bad Things) doesn't represent my new identity, but the change symbolizes the new me. I no longer need things like that to define me. Me defines me. Identity doesn't have to be so specific...it can take many shapes and forms, but all those things together create a person.
I feel good about things...simply because I feel good. Nothing has changed around me, my way of thinking has changed. And my attitude. :)
PS-Going shooting with the Photo man next week! ;)
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